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Pre-relationship agreement
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The party of the first part (herein referred to as she/her) being of sound
mind and fairly good body, agrees to the following with the party of the
second part (herein referred to as he/him)
1. FULL DISCLOSURE: At the commencement of said relationship (colloquially
referred to as the first date or match up), each party agrees to fully
disclose any current girl/boyfriends, dependent children, bizarre
religious beliefs, phobias, fears, social diseases, strange political
affiliations, or currently active relationships with anyone else that have
not yet been terminated. Further each party agrees to make known any
deep-seated mother/father/brother/sister complexes and fanatical
obsessions with pets, careers, or organized sports. Failure to make these
disclosures will result in the immediate termination of said relationship
before it has a chance to get anywhere.
2. INDEMNIFICATION OF FRIENDS: Both parties agree to hold the person who
arranged the liaison (colloquially referred to as the "matchmaker")
blameless in the event the "fix-up" turns out to be a "real loser" or
"psycho bitch". (For definition of "real loser", see "John DeLorean: My
Story", available at most bookstores; George Hamilton at one of Imelda
Marcos' parties; or any picture of Bob Guccione in Penthouse. For
definition of "psycho bitch," see Sharon Stone in "Basic Instinct," or
Glenn Close in "Fatal Attraction.")
3. DEFINITION OF RELATIONSHIP: Should said relationship proceed past the
first "fix-up" both parties mutually agree to use the following
terminology in describing their said "dating": For the first thirty (30)
days both parties consent to say they are "going out". (This neither
implies nor states any guarantee of exclusivity.) Following the first
thirty (30) days said parties may say they are "seeing somebody" and may
be referred to by third parties as "an item". Sixty (60) days following
the commencement of the "first date" either member may elect to use the
terms "girl/boyfriend" or "lover" and their mutual acquaintances may refer
to them as "a couple". Under no circumstances are the phrases "my better
half," "the little woman," "the old ball and chain," or "my old man/lady"
acceptable. Further, if both members of the party consent, this timetable
may be accelerated; however, if either party "gets too serious" and
disregards this schedule, the other party may dissolve the relationship on
the grounds of "moving too fast" and may once again be said to be "on the
market.
4. TERMS OF EXCLUSIVITY: For the first thirty (30) days both parties agree
not to ask questions about the others whereabouts on weekends,
weeknights,or over long holiday periods. No unreasonable demands or
expectations will be made; both parties agree they have no "rights" or
"holds" on the other's time. Following the first six weeks or forty-five
(45) days, if one party continues to be "missing in action" without
explanation, the "wounded party" agrees to "give up".
5. DATING ETIQUETTE: For the first thirty (30) days both members of the
couple agree to be overly considerate of the other's work pressures,
schedules, and business ambitions. A maximum of three (3) phone calls will
be made between the two parties during the working day, and each party
will attempt - with best efforts - to originate 50% of the phone calls.
Additionally, for the first two weeks all dates will be made at least
twenty-four (24) hours in advance; there will be no "running off in the
middle of the night to console an old girl/boyfriend", and both parties
agree to strike the phrase "but he/she needs me" from their vocabulary.
Further, during the first six (6) weeks each member of said relationship
agrees to attempt at least one spontaneous "home cooked meal" and will
arrange the delivery of at least one unexpected bouquet of flowers.
Following the first forty-five (45) days both parties will return to their
normal personalities.
6. TERMS OF PAYMENT: It is agreed that -- respective gross income aside --
"he" will pick up the tab at all dinners, clubs, theaters, and breakfasts
until:
(a) He considers her suitably impressed
(b) we are broke
(c) He says, "this is ridiculous, you pay!".
Not included in this agreement are meals ordered from the bedroom, which
are subject to the availability of discretionary funds on hand at the time.
7. LIVING ARRANGEMENTS: (occasionally known as the "Why do I bother to
keep my own apartment?" codicil): Should said relationship progress to the
point where the couple spends more then five nights a week together, every
effort shall be made to split the time between their respective apartments.
Further,
it is agreed that both sides will attempt to silence the lewd remarks of
landlords, or roommates. Additionally, both will avoid having their mother
call at 7:30 in the morning. He agrees to "pick up after himself" while
in residence at her apartment, including washing his whiskers out of the
sink, and assisting with household duties. (By the same token, she agrees
to respect his right to keep his apartment "a mess".) (Especially since
we tend to excel in this area!).
8. THE 90 DAY GRACE PERIOD: For the first three months, each member of the
couple agrees to hold the other blameless in the euphoric use of phrases
like "Let's move in together," "Why don't we start a family?" and --
using archaic terminology -- "Let's get married." Additionally, each
party agrees to love, cherish, honor, and defend the other party's right
not to meet his parents.
9. THE "L" WORD: For the first sixty (60) days both parties agree not to
use the phrase "I love you." They may love plants, dogs, cats, cars,
concerts, or the way a particular pair of jeans fits, but not each other.
Failure by one party to abide by this rule will result in the other party
using the "G" word . . . "Gone."
10. GROUNDS FOR TERMINATION: Any of the following will be grounds for
immediate termination and final dissolution of said relationship:
(a) Excessive use of chatty French phrases;
(b) Ending any argument with the sentence "My ex- used to do that same
thing";
(c) Suggesting - no matter how kindly - that the other member should seek
"help"
(d) ending any argument with the phrase "My analyst thinks you are..."
(e) complaining more than twice about the contents of the other party's
refrigerator (or lack thereof).
11. DECLARATION OF STRENGTH: At the time of breakup each party reserves
the right to make the other feel guilty by using one or all of the
following phrases:
(a) "You'll never find anybody better";
(b) "Nobody could ever make you happy";
(c) "I'll find somebody who can really appreciate me"; and
(d) "My analyst thinks you are . . ." (Psychosis to be filled in)
12. MISCELLANEOUS:
(a) Each party agrees to give the other at least five minutes' notice
before terminating said relationship;
(b) both parties agree to remain exclusive until such time as the
relationship appears to be "on the rocks";
(c) at the termination of said affair:
(1) both parties agree to be mature and return compiled socks,
sweatshirts, books, record albums, door keys, personal
undergarments with all due haste through impartial
intermediary;
(2) each party agrees to wait at least seventy-two (72) hours
before engaging in sex with any of the other's friends;
(3) both parties agree to refrain from slandering the other for a
period of at least seven days (bedroom performance included), and further
consent to use one of the following nebulous terms in the description of
the breakup:
"The timing wasn't right"; "He/She wanted more than I could
give"; He/She was too involved in his/her career"; "He/She
decided to go back with his/her
(a) girl/boyfriend;
(b) last lover;
(c) hometown;
(d) therapist".
13. ADDENDUM: After the initial breakup - no matter what - both parties
agree to give the relationship "one more shot".
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